Those who enjoyed Baghban – you’ll like this family drama, although it does get a little morose towards the end. Thankfully, there are no ‘regret-flashbacks’ for any of the characters. Verdict – a three-hanky movie, but only in the second half.
Saturday, April 30, 2005
Waqt - The Race Against Time
Those who enjoyed Baghban – you’ll like this family drama, although it does get a little morose towards the end. Thankfully, there are no ‘regret-flashbacks’ for any of the characters. Verdict – a three-hanky movie, but only in the second half.
Thursday, April 28, 2005
Symbiosis
That’s what I found out when I met Dr. Shanti Bhattacharya, Namita Jacob and Kaveri Murthy at the launch of ‘Where is the button’, an interesting book concept, that any child can read. Yes, any child!
As part of the Chetana Charitable Trust’s efforts, the book attempts to bridge the diverse learning needs of children with varying abilities. For instance, while it looks like any other storybook, it also has the story at the base of the page in Braille, for children with visual impairment. There are buttons on tassels, tied to the book, to add a ‘touch and feel’ factor.
“It all started when I found it difficult to choose the right books for my daughter last year. Namita, as a special educator, drew attention to the fact that Indian pre-school children with low vision or vision impairment didn’t even have books, leave alone the choice. Their first exposure to reading is with studies as against reading for fun. That’s how, the idea for this book was born.” Says Shanti, a Trustee at Chetana and looking very unlike the stereotypical starched cotton sari clad, stern professor I assumed I was meeting.
Namita Jacob, a Key Resource Person for the project says, “We developed the book over 8 months. Shanti wrote it, and Kaveri illustrated it. I then pre-tested it. We changed a few things based on the feedback, and went into print.”
“Just the other day, somebody brought to our notice that the book can achieve one more purpose – for visually impaired parents to read to their non-visually impaired children!” says Shanti.
(Pic courtesy Seven Shots as published in Madras Plus)
Hey Grandma, tell me a story
Whatever happened to the stories of the thirsty crow, the fox and the vadai, the monkey and the chapathi, that came alive in our imaginations? Since when did video games replace wizened hands demonstrating a story?
In short, where have all the story-telling grandmothers gone?
Is ‘patti kadhai’ a thing of the past like ‘paavadai dhavanis’ and ‘pallankuzhi’?
Grandmothers, considered for long as storehouses of tales, fables and many a mythological adventure, have given way to professional story-tellers in schools and activity centres. Is the emergence of the nuclear family responsible? Maybe, but let’s also delve a little further into the subject to find out what some Chennaiites have to say about it.
Vinita Sidhartha, the brain behind Kreeda, a company that has revived many forgotten Indian games, says, “Children living with their grandparents are a lucky lot. But for those who don’t, there is no common ground where the two can come together. Computers and technology have driven a chasm between children and their grandparents. And really, it’s nobody’s fault. The beauty of storytelling in the old days, was that it went beyond stories and was one-on-one. This is something that professional story-tellers cannot capture.”
Rangashree Srinivas, who is Manager & Coordinator at Goodbooks, says, “Storytelling has seen a revival. There are birthday parties where the theme for the party is woven into an interactive storytelling session. Firstly, storytelling is being used as a tool for therapy, awareness etc., even for explaining complex concepts simply. Secondly, the method of telling a story has changed. Today, depending on one’s forte, one can use dance or music as a medium to tell tales to children. While the magic of story telling still exists, the method has changed. As for grandmothers, they seem to be quite busy themselves, these days!”
Mrs. Ramani Bai, who is 80, and has 11 grandkids (the youngest being 2 years old) finds stories necessary for children. “It’s a change for children from school. I used to tell my grandkids stories when they got home from school, and only after that, they would do their homework. A story is also a great way to distract children. When one of my grandsons used to insist on my spending time with him while I was busy in the kitchen, a short tale would usually make him happy and he would move on to something else, while I finished my work. Also, as far as the stories are concerned, some children like to hear new stories every day and some would like to hear the same story again. In the case of the latter, one had better remember the details of the previous day’s story!”
Shirani, a story-teller, considers grandmothers’ tales as priceless. “Nothing comes close to even matching that experience. But as childrens’ schedules are so hectic these days, storytelling is slipped in as another activity. When I do storytelling sessions, I try and incorporate some movement and parts of the story, where the children get involved instead of just listening to me. Learning also happens in the process of these sessions, but very unlike the regimented educational learning. It’s like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle – children learn a little at a time, and somewhere along the way, the complete picture falls into place.”
While there are storytellers aplenty, what can one do to bring into a child’s life, the experience of grandmothers’ tales? How does one even set about incorporating this aspect into the lives of today’s children? One way, feels Vinita, is for grandparents to reeducate themselves to see what interests their grandkids. It’s hardly fair to expect a child who’s interested in Pokemon, to relate to the adventures of Hanuman. The other suggestion, offered by the grandmother in this article, Mrs. Ramani Bai, is to create a storytelling ritual, even if the kids visit grandparents only over weekends or in the summer holidays.
Where do parents fit into all this? Well, that’s a different article altogether.
Thursday, April 21, 2005
Jaspar Utley
Saturday, April 16, 2005
Which page are you on?
Definition of ‘Page 3’: As Atul Kulkarni’s character in Madhur Bhandarkar’s Page 3, scathingly puts it, it’s all about “who went to which party, who did they arrive with, who did they leave with, what they were wearing.” Notwithstanding the back-biting and air-kissing that’s supposedly standard fare.
What with the concept transcending media and making inroads into people’s homes through TV, it becomes imperative to find out how much of the Page 3 culture exists in Chennai. Here’s what a few Chennaiites had to say, although many are yet to watch Bhandarkar’s movie on the subject.
Sonika Jain, Director –Sales, Chennai for the Taj Group of Hotels says, “Chennai doesn’t have the kind of socialite culture that Mumbai, Delhi or even Bangalore has. To that extent, I would say it’s just beginning to emerge here.”
Sonika’s opinion is mirrored by Shobha Nair, Manager - Product Development at American Express Bank who also adds, “Overall, the aspect of gossip as depicted in the movie, Page 3, exists in Chennai. As it does in all other places. However, the kind of partying with the rich and the famous that they’ve show, is yet to catch up here. Although there are some people who do try to appear in the most happening dos and want to be seen in the right circles.”
This aspect of partying, with the objective of being written about does exist in Chennai, feels Vani Aiyer, who’s in Client Servicing at JWT. She says, “Every city has its elite. Other people would like to be seen with the right celebrity, and also showcase themselves. There’s some inner psychology at work here, a need for recognition. Something like groupies? Well, it does provide an interesting read for those not belonging to these circles!”
Vidya Gajapati Raj Singh, wonders what all the fuss is about, “Every city has its parties and events. In Chennai, the parties are still very private. As for events, there’s just so much happening every other day. Now, with fashion magazines and new publications coming in, there is bound to be more of a focus on people in the limelight. While all this is new to India, one just needs to look at foreign tabloids to gauge the extent to which it exists. Frankly, I find the attention drawn to the Page 3 culture overrated. After all, how much time does one really spend in reading the papers?”
Dr. Vijay Nagaswami, Psychotherapist and Relationships Consultant, feels that the aspect of people writing about social gatherings is bound to increase in Chennai. “However, a party is a private event. People don’t want the entire city to know more about them, unless of course, it’s intended. There are those who specifically like to be seen on Page 3 columns and this perpetuates the culture. As for me, I find it an invasion of privacy.”
While the celeb-hounding paparazzi is still uncommon here, three things are at play as far as page-3 culture is concerned – (a) hosts who plan parties with A-list celebs and invite the media to cover the party. (b) celebs who seek out publicity (c) wannabe socialites who would like to be seen rubbing shoulders with the glitterati, hoping for some of the glitz to rub off on them. Add to that the reader’s need to be in the know on all things (especially the gossip) concerning the coterie of glamorous celebrities in the city. The underlying discomfort across the board, is one of intent, not of unwarranted publicity.
Although Chennai is oft-accused of lagging behind Mumbai or Delhi in its glitzy parties or glamorous events, I guess it’s just a matter of time before we see quotable quotes and glossy images of our favourite celebs in print. Until then, I guess the rest of us will just have to practise how to air-kiss and say ‘Dahrling!’ with just the right intonation.
Muaah!
(edited version published on April 16, 2005 in Madras Plus, the city features supplement of The Economic Times, Chennai)
Saturday, April 09, 2005
Wild About India - Aline Dobbie
